Forget swiping, Facebook Dating is now available in the U.S.

Bumble, Hinge, Tinder…Facebook?

One of these things is not like the others, but it’s trying to be.

Facebook Dating has officially launched in the United States. Let’s take a look at how it works…

If you’re single and ready to mingle, you now have the choice to opt into Facebook Dating.

Click the video below to see a demo.

Facebook Dating Demo

Posted by Facebook on Wednesday, September 4, 2019

You have to be 18 years or older to opt into Facebook Dating and have the most recent version of the social media giant downloaded. Your Facebook profile will be suggested to other people who have opted-in and vice versa. Your suggestions are based on preferences, activity on Facebook, and shared interests.

You don’t have to do any swiping with Facebook Dating — you just simply comment directly on someone’s profile or tap the Like button to let them know that you’re interested in getting to know them. If you don’t see a connection, you pass and move on to the next profile. You can match with people who are friends of friends and/or people who aren’t in your circle.


So what if you want to match with a Facebook friend? Facebook Dating won’t match you with friends, UNLESS you choose to use Secret Crush. 

Photo: Facebook

Alright, moving on. Secret Crush lets you match with people you are already friends with or following on Instagram. You can choose up to nine Facebook friends or Instagram followers you’re interested in and if your crush has opted into Facebook Dating — they’ll get a notification that says someone has a crush on them. A.K.A. you.

“If your crush adds you to their Secret Crush list too, it’s a match! If your crush isn’t on Dating, doesn’t create a Secret Crush list, or doesn’t put you on their list — then no one will know that you’ve entered their name,” according to Facebook.


And unlike most things you do on Facebook, your activity will not be posted to your newsfeed. According to Facebook, all of your Dating activity will stay on Facebook Dating. It won’t be shared to the rest of Facebook. So…what happens in Facebook Dating, stays in Facebook Dating. Phew…


This has been “Facebook Dating for Dummies” — beginner edition. If you want more of the nitty-gritty details on how the new platform works, click here.